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Why Chasing Kids All Day Doesn’t Count as Exercise

December 28, 2015 by Aliesha

ChasingKidsAllDay

I’ve said it, my friends have said it, and you’ve probably said it too.  It’s the answer you give when your doctor asks, “Do you exercise?”

“Well, I chase kids all day!”

Like you, I assumed this qualified as some sort of workout.  At the end of the day, after taking care of four kids, I’m beat!  (Even when I was “only” taking care of one toddler, I was still beat!)

Unfortunately, I had a rather rude awakening when I realized recently that this does not actually count as physical exercise.  (Yes, it’s “activity,” but I’ll talk more about that in a minute.)

My mother-in-law gave me a Fitbit (this one), and I started using it a month ago.  It is automatically set up with 10,000 steps as the daily goal.  I assumed with my normal life activity, I would hit that without trying (or at least come close).  Wrong.  This is embarrassing to admit, but during my first week wearing my Fitbit (without changing anything about my life), I was taking 4,000-5,000 steps a day.  That included the day when I was cooking, cleaning, and hosting a Christmas party (5,300 steps), and doing all the normal “mom stuff” I did: laundry, cleaning, cooking, chasing children at bedtime, etc.  Best day that week: 8,300 steps.  Ouch!

And then there is the “active minutes” tracker.  Oh boy!  I was logging big, fat ZEROS for my active minutes that first week!  Apparently “chasing kids all day” was not enough to elevate my heart rate in order to qualify as a workout.  And there’s a lot of sitting involved in being a mom: reading books, nursing a baby, editing photos, etc., as well as standing: folding laundry, chopping veggies, etc.

I knew I needed to start working an exercise routine into my life for several reasons.

  1. I want to be healthy, have energy, and be able to participate in any activities my family may want to do.
  2. I want to model a healthy lifestyle to my children so they want to be active also.
  3. I have no excuses right now. I’m very good at coming up with reasons not to exercise (I’m pregnant. I just had a baby. I don’t have time. It’s cold. It’s hot. I hate it. ETC.), but I’m not making excuses this year.  I want to be known for excellence not excuses.

So all through the month of December, I’ve been challenging myself and making small changes.  Baby steps, my friend.

My goals:

  1. Take at least 10,000 steps a day (planning to increase this goal soon!)
  2. Exercise (30 minutes walking or jogging) six days a week.
  3. Be conscious of how much sitting I’m doing and make an effort to get up and move regularly
  4. Start the Couch to 5K program

My progress so far:

–22 out of the last 23 days I have hit my step goal, and many days I’ve gone well above that. (Best day so far: 13,699 steps.)
-I’ve been exercising 40-70 minutes a day (often split up – perhaps a family walk in the morning and then walking in place inside in the evenings while watching something)
-I’m much more aware of when I’ve been sitting for a while. I’m still trying to figure out how to edit photos, blog, etc. while still being active and not just sitting at my computer for hours.  Balance! But I’m seeing lots of improvement in this area.
-I started the Couch to 5K program today!  It’s SO doable and great for beginner runners.

I am also actively combating the lies in my head… lies such as “You’re not a runner. You are just going to quit. You can’t do this.”  Instead, I’m speaking truth to myself. “Who I was does not limit who I can be. I can do this. I will live with intentionality and excellence.”

So how am I finding time for this?  Tad’s schedule currently does not require early morning shifts, so either I’m running before breakfast, or we’re all going on a family walk together or to the park where I can run/walk around the track. If his schedule changes, I’ll have to adapt, but since he works from home I have more flexibility than I have had in other seasons.

Another thing I should note… I got some awesome activewear from thredUP.  I found a great pair of Nike shoes, some Gap athletic pants, a Nike t-shirt, and a New Balance zip-up track jacket, all for great prices.  (Use this link to save $20 on your first purchase.)  It sounds odd, but “dressing the part” has helped me tremendously.  I may not be an athlete (yet), but at least I can look presentable!

I’ll end this post with a sweet story that I’m keeping in my mind for motivation and encouragement.  One morning recently, Vera saw me heading out the door for a run and asked if she could come.  She had her shoes on and was out the door before I could even answer!  While we were running, she kept saying, “Mommy, we are the best runners!  We are so fast!  We are so strong!  We are so good at this!”  With a smile on her face, she ran her heart out in the cold December air.  Towards the end of the mile, she wanted to walk, but it was my turn to encourage her to finish strong.  It just blessed my heart so much to hear her cheering us on!  On days when it’s hard, I want to remember her sweet little voice.

How about you… do you have any health or exercise goals for 2016?

Disclosure: This blog post contains affiliate links. 

Filed Under: health and beauty, healthy eating

Natural Postpartum Kit

August 21, 2015 by Aliesha

I’m not sure how many (if any) men read my blog, but if you are male and reading this, things are about to get awkward.  Lots of discussion about the realities of postpartum recovery (some parts of which are not too pleasant), so consider yourself fairly warned!

Before I have a baby, I prepare a small box of supplies that I call my “postpartum kit.”  This includes everything I’ll need as I recover from having a baby!  And since this is my fourth baby, I’m pretty confident that I have all my bases covered!  It’s much easier to assemble all of these supplies ahead of time rather than rushing out and buying things right after the baby comes.  I’d rather be over-prepared than under-prepared.  But I really do use pretty much everything on this list each time!Creating a natural postpartum kit: everything you need to recover quickly after birth | Feathers in Our Nest

My Natural Postpartum Kit

Arnica Gel

This stuff is great for helping heal bruising and swelling from the birth.  I use it on my face and anywhere else needed!

Witch Hazel

Totally one of the best things to use on hemorrhoids. ‘Nuff said.

Perineal Spray (DIY… see recipe at bottom of post)

Trying this out for the first time.  I think it will really help my nether regions recover quickly after birth!

Sitz Bath

My hospital gave me one charged me on my bill after Vera’s birth, and it was so nice to use!  I used it the most after her birth since I had a little bit of tearing.  It is very soothing to use.

Postpartum Bath Herbs

I think the product I have is slightly different than the one I linked to above, but it’s very similar.  You can use these bath herbs in a regular bath, in a sitz bath, to make a concoction to spray on your bottom using a peri bottle, or to pour over pads and freeze to make “padsicles,” as one of my friends calls them.  It’s a very versatile product and is so helpful for healing.

Peri Bottles (free from hospital)

I love these bottles.  Everything “down there” is so swollen and sore, so filling a peri bottle with warm water and using it for gentle cleansing after using the restroom is so nice.  They’ll let you bring a bunch of these home with you, but you really just need one.

Earth Mama Bottom Balm

I can’t say enough good things about this stuff.  It’s great for hemorrhoids and for using anywhere that is still healing.  It’s nice for tears/stitches if you had any tearing.  It almost has a numbing effect when you apply it!

Fenugreek

For all the breastfeeding issues I have overcome (clogged ducts, improper latch, cracked nipples, mastitis, etc.), supply has never been an issue for me.  Still, I like to take Fenugreek immediately after the birth and for the first few days or so as my milk comes in and my supply is established.  If you’ve struggled with poor supply, this is the herb to take.  I usually have to stop taking it after a week because it works so well!

Mother’s Milk Tea

Again, this is a product to help aid lactation.  I keep it on hand just in case!

Lanolin

If you’re breastfeeding, you must get this.  Your nipples will be tender (and maybe even quite sore) at first, and lanolin is safe to use for soothing your nipples while breastfeeding.  It’s all natural and is the best thing I’ve found for that issue!  If you don’t need it right away, you may need it down the road.

Bamboobies Cloth Nursing Pads – overnights and regulars

I stopped using disposable nursing pads a long time ago and made the switch to Bamboobies.  Not only are they much cheaper in the long run, they also are super soft and they don’t “crackle” under your clothes the way disposables do.  The overnights are best for the first few weeks if your supply is strong and you have a heavy letdown.  After that, they’re great for using overnight.  I usually start using the regulars during the daytime around 6 weeks postpartum (or so).  I saw a huge reduction in clogged ducts once I switched from disposables to reusable Bamboobies, so that’s another plus!

Evening Primrose Oil

This supplement is great for regulating hormones, and we all need that postpartum!

Ibuprofen

This is what my practitioners recommend I take as I heal from my birth, so I went ahead and bought a bottle to have when I get home from the hospital.

Pill Container

In the sleep-deprived haze I will be in postpartum, I decided that using a pill container (from the Dollar Tree) would be a good idea.  I also write down what medications I take and when so that I remember to take my next dose on time!  I keep all that info in a notebook, along with when I fed the baby, how long the feeding was, and on what side I nursed them.

Shower Cap

I think I stole these from a hotel we stayed at (but you can get them at the Dollar Tree).  Postpartum, you’ll want to take a shower every day and sometimes twice (between the bleeding, the milk leaking everywhere, and the baby spit-up and poop incidents that are bound to happen), but you may not want to wash your hair every time (or at least I don’t!).  I like having a shower cap on hand so I can take a quick shower without having to wash/dry my hair every time!

Maxi Pads

At first I use the jumbo ones at the hospital, then I gradually work my way down to reasonable sized maxi pads.  Trust me, your husband does not want to go shop for these for you (it’s confusing enough for you… imagine how he feels!), so do him a favor and pick up a few packs in varying sizes so you’ll be prepared!  You can expect heavy bleeding for about ten days and lighter bleeding for four to six weeks.

Essential Oils

Of course I have my stash of essential oils on hand!  I have Trauma-Gone and Vetiver on hand specifically for helping balance my mood/hormones after birth.  Gentle Healer is another one I have on hand in case I have tearing that I’m healing from.  Frankincense and Lavender are also great for healing inflammation.  This post lists lots of other ways to use essential oils postpartum.


As mentioned above, I made a Perineal Spray to use this time.  Here’s the recipe!DIY Perineal Spray for Postpartum Healing and Soothing | Feathers in Our Nest

Postpartum Soothing Perineal Spray

3 Tbsp. witch hazel
1 1/2 Tbsp. aloe vera
3 drops Frankincense
2 drops Clary Sage
2 Tbsp. filtered water

Combine all ingredients in a 4 oz. glass spray bottle and shake well.  For even greater relief, keep chilled in the fridge before using (not necessary, but nice!).  Shake well each time before applying.

Is there anything else I didn’t mention that you always like to have on hand after a birth? Share in the comments section so others can be prepared as well!

ALIESHA CALDWELL IS A PARTICIPANT IN THE AMAZON SERVICES LLC ASSOCIATES PROGRAM, AN AFFILIATE ADVERTISING PROGRAM DESIGNED TO PROVIDE A MEANS FOR SITES TO EARN ADVERTISING FEES BY ADVERTISING AND LINKING TO AMAZON.COM.
Disclosure: I have included affiliate links to the essential oil company I use and trust.

Filed Under: baby, health and beauty, natural birth

DIY Bug Repellent

July 15, 2015 by Aliesha

all natural DIY Bug Repellent made with essential oils and safe for pregnant women | easy and fast to make | Feathers in Our Nest


I tried out a new bug repellent recently that I made using essential oils.  It worked really well at a cookout we went to this week!  It’s nice to know exactly what’s in your bug spray and that there aren’t any “questionable” ingredients!  It also only takes a minute to make.

These oils are very safe, and this blend of citronella, lavender, peppermint, and eucalyptus citriodora is specially created to be safe for pregnant women and kids.  I tend to attract a lot of mosquitoes when I’m pregnant, so I was happy to see that this DIY bug repellent worked so well!  It also provides relief to existing bug bites, especially if you spray it on right when they happen.

As always, wearing more clothes (long pants, etc.) and avoiding scented perfumes and lotions can help prevent mosquito bites too!

DIY Bug Repellent
 
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Make this DIY Bug Repellent to prevent mosquito bites this summer! Easy and fast to make with a blend of four safe essential oils.
Author: Aliesha @ Feathers in Our Nest
Ingredients
  • 15 drops citronella
  • 8 drops lavender
  • 8 drops peppermint
  • 4 drops eucalyptus citriodora
  • 4 ounces distilled water
  • glass spray bottle
Instructions
  1. To a 4 ounce glass spray bottle, add essential oils.
  2. Fill remainder of the way with distilled water.
  3. Shake well before using!
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Sources: citronella  /  lavender  /  peppermint  /  eucalyptus citriodora  /  glass spray bottle


all natural DIY Bug Repellent made with essential oils and safe for pregnant women | easy and fast to make | Feathers in Our NestHave a happy, bug-free summer!

For other “recipes” using essential oils, click here!

Disclosure: This post contains affiliate links to the essential oil company I use and love. If you choose to make a purchase through my links, it will help support my family and this blog. Thanks!

Filed Under: essential oils, health and beauty, summer

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