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Menu Monday

January 10, 2011 by Aliesha

Monday
Beef Stir Fry

Tuesday
Chicken Marsala

Wednesday
Broiled Salmon, Rosemary Potatoes, Broccoli

Thursday
Chicken Breasts Stuffed with Goat Cheese and Basil in a Mushroom Wine Sauce

Friday
Tacos & the fixin’s

Saturday
Homemade Sausage Pizza

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Praying for Your Children

January 10, 2011 by Aliesha

This past weekend I had the privilege of sharing at a women’s Bible study in Richmond (started by Tad’s mom at Tad’s home church!).  The topic I chose was praying for your children, and I thought I’d share a bit of the lesson here as well.

We looked at five prayers from the Apostle Paul and discussed how we can pray many of those same things for our children.

Colossians 1:9-12, “9For this reason also, since the day we heard of it, we have not ceased to pray for you and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience; joyously giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light.”

Philippians 1:9-11, “And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve the things that are excellent, in order to be sincere and blameless until the day of Christ; having been filled with the fruit of righteousness which comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God”

Ephesians 1:15-19a, “For this reason I too, having heard of the faith in the Lord Jesus which exists among you and your love for all the saints, do not cease giving thanks for you, while making mention of you in my prayers; that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give to you a spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him. I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe.”

Ephesians 3:14-19, “For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name, that He would grant you, according to the riches of His glory, to be strengthened with power through His Spirit in the inner man, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; and that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled up to all the fullness of God.”

2 Thessalonians 1:11-12, “To this end also we pray for you always, that our God will count you worthy of your calling, and fulfill every desire for goodness and the work of faith with power, so that the name of our Lord Jesus will be glorified in you, and you in Him, according to the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ.”

Outside of their salvation, the main thing we should be praying for our children is that “the name of our Lord Jesus will be glorified” in them!

Here is an excellent resource on some other ways to pray for your children from Nancy Leigh DeMoss of Revive Our Hearts:  31 Biblical Virtues to Pray for Your Children.

Filed Under: parenting, prayer

Have a Hard Shell, but a Soft Heart

January 7, 2011 by Aliesha

Being a pastor’s wife has its challenges, but so does being a military wife, a politician’s wife, a teacher’s wife, or a doctor’s wife.  With every man’s work or ministry, there are things that are difficult on the wife and family, whether it be the hours he works, the amount of time he spends away from home, or the criticism he receives. 

That said, know that the following post is not an attempt to say that being a pastor’s wife is harder than any of the other professions I mentioned above.  This is just what I know, and I write from that experience.

Few things are harder than hearing my husband criticized.  I would rather someone tell me to my face that they hate my guts than to hear in passing that they are upset with my husband.  (I know this is not a unique struggle to pastor’s wives.)

Recently, the Lord has, I believe, placed on my heart a phrase that He would have me live out.  As I have reflected upon how He would have me live my life as a pastor’s wife, I believe I am to have “a hard shell, but a soft heart.”

Allow me to explain.  Having a hard shell allows me to deflect the darts of criticism, anger, gossip, dissension and ignore the ways the enemy (Satan, not people) is trying to bring me down.  When I have a soft shell, I get hurt easily, feel wounded, and am bogged-down by the negative things people say about me or my husband.

Having a soft heart allows me to continue to love the people to whom we are called to minister, and to exude grace to those around me.  When I have a hard heart, I become bitter, feel neglected, and am focused on ways to “get back at” people who have hurt me.

To my shame, I get these turned around all the time.  I am a sinner saved by grace and I desire to walk victoriously over sin.  There are days and even season where I stumble, yet the Lord is always patient with me.

My prayer continues to be that I have a hard shell, but a soft heart.

Filed Under: introspection, marriage, ministry, struggles, thoughts

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