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What’s so Magical about Forty Weeks?

February 15, 2012 by Aliesha

(My real “Week Forty” pregnancy post is coming later.  This is just an informational post about due dates for those who are interested.)

As many of you know, I went past 40 weeks with Vera.  Thirteen days past, actually.  Many of us rely on that “magical due date” to predict when our little sweetie will arrive, but the system for calculating it is actually rather flawed.  First of all, this method (which dates back to the 1700’s) assumes that each woman’s cycle is the same length (28 days).  A woman with shorter cycles is going to have a shorter gestation, and likewise, a woman with longer cycles will have a longer gestation.  Secondly, this method incorrectly represents a lunar month as 280 days rather than the actual 295 days (yep… a 15 day difference!).(1)

A more accurate method for determining one’s due date (Mittendorf, et. al. 1990 study) is to take the date of your last cycle, subtract 3 months, and add 15 days (for first time moms) or 10 days (for moms who have previously given birth).(2)  According to this way of calculating, I am not actually even “due” until February 18 or 19.

Another source suggested taking the doctor’s calculated due date for you (280 days) and adding or subtracting days based on the average length of your cycle.  Add or subtract 2 days for every day difference there is between your cycle length and the standard 28 days.  If you typically have a cycle that lasts 30 days, add 4 days to the end of your “due date” (from the doctor), and if you normally have  a shorter cycle (like 27 days), subtract 2 days.(3)  According to this way of figuring the due date, I am due February 19 or 20.

I also found some really interesting information about inductions.  You may have heard that it is important to be induced at 41 weeks (I was told last time by my doctor that after 41 weeks the risk of stillbirth doubles), yet did you know that the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) does not recommend labor induction until 42 weeks?  In a study done of over 56,000 pregnancies, the ACOG concluded: “Routine labor induction at 41 weeks likely increases labor complications and operative delivery without significantly improving neonatal outcomes.”(4)  Interesting!  I’ll definitely be pushing for a late induction date (right at 42 weeks, if possible) if I am still pregnant at that point.

I hope that this post has been informative for you.  I feel like I’m learning a lot right now… not just about pregnancy/delivery, but about patience and trusting in God for HIS perfect timing!

When our family went through a difficult time when I was in middle school, we clung to this verse:  “Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God” (Psalm 20:7). We filled in “chariots” and “horses” with what we were tempted to trust in at the time, and determined to trust in GOD, not in those things!  Some may trust in doctors and due dates, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God!  ๐Ÿ™‚

Sources:
(1) The Lie of the EDD
(2) Ibid.
(3) gentlebirth.org
(4) Forty Weeks and Beyond

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Week Thirty-Nine

February 8, 2012 by Aliesha

I’m sooooo ready to meet our new baby!  I feel like I’m just “biding my time” until she arrives, and I know I should probably try to be more productive until she does.  I have very little energy, due to being this far along and also due to difficulties sleeping well.  My midwife told me to try and rest as much as I can, so I am trying to take naps each afternoon when possible.  I didn’t rest yesterday afternoon because I wanted to put away some more meals in the freezer.  I ended up making eight more meals!

I feel absolutely huge right now, though I don’t think I’m that much bigger than I was a week ago.  I do think I’m much lower than I was, so that may explain why my maternity clothes aren’t even fitting anymore and why I waddle everywhere.  Baby Mango is still quite active, but I think she might be starting to feel a little cramped.

I have lots of Braxton Hicks contractions each day.  I usually experience them for an hour or two several different times during the day (particularly in the evenings after dinner and again before bed).  My midwife told me that they are working to thin my cervix and prepare for real labor!

I have to keep repeating this mantra to myself: “I will not be pregnant forever… I will not be pregnant forever… I am super uncomfortable, but I am incredibly blessed to be pregnant. I will not be pregnant forever…“

Week thirty-nine with Vera.

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Maternity Photos

February 7, 2012 by Aliesha

Sorry I’ve been neglectful of the blog as of late.  I’m still pregnant ๐Ÿ™‚ but just haven’t done much the last couple of days that’s blog-worthy. (Want to see a picture of my clean fridge, or of a pile of Hershey Kisses wrappers that I’ve consumed? Didn’t think so.)

I just got my maternity pictures back, and I am SOOO excited for you to see them!  A really sweet photographer friend, Shannon, took them for me a few weeks ago.  She is AWESOME!  If you’re local and need a photographer, definitely get in touch with her!

We had so much fun on the shoot, as you can tell from how the pictures turned out.  Shannon made me feel like a model! 

Here are just a few of my favorites, but you can see more on Shannon’s blog.

Isn’t Shannon great?  I love how all of these turned out!  Remember, more on her blog!
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Filed Under: baby, friends, pregnancy, Tad

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