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Not a Waste

November 2, 2011 by Aliesha

In our ladies Bible study last night, we spent some time talking about the story of Mary anointing Jesus’ feet with perfume, and how others (even the disciples!) thought that what she was doing was a waste.  Many times in our lives we make choices that to others (even other Christians!), seem like we are wasting our time. 

As I clean up Cheerios and smashed bananas off the kitchen floor while singing “Praise Him, Praise Him, all ye little children…” to Vera, I have to remind myself: I am not wasting my life!

I came across a blog post I wrote in the fall of 2006 (long before this blog started), and I thought I’d re-post it here. 

The Best Use of a Life

John 12:1-8: “Six days before the Passover, Jesus therefore came to Bethany, where Lazarus was, whom Jesus had raised from the dead. So they gave a dinner for him there. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those reclining with him at the table. Mary therefore took a pound of expensive ointment made from pure nard, and anointed the feet of Jesus and wiped his feet with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume. But Judas Iscariot, one of his disciples (he who was about to betray him), said, ‘Why was this ointment not sold for three hundred denarii and given to the poor?’ He said this, not because he cared about the poor, but because he was a thief, and having charge of the moneybag he used to help himself to what was put into it. Jesus said, ‘Leave her alone, so that she may keep it for the day of my burial. The poor you always have with you, but you do not always have me.'”

What was the best use of Mary’s jar of perfume? As the disciples looked on, Mary broke the vessel and poured the costly perfume on Jesus’ feet. Judas Iscariot criticized Mary, asking, “Why this waste?” The onlookers could not understand an important truth: Jesus was worth it. They underestimated the worth of Jesus and questioned why Mary would sacrifice something so valuable.

She could have held tightly to her valuable perfume, which quite probably, was her dowry…her savings…her security for the future. But Mary knew that by giving all to Jesus she gained something eternal. She gave Him everything she had, and she knew that her future was secure in Him.

Mary knew that there was no better use for her jar of perfume than to break it and pour it on Jesus’ feet.

What is the best use for your life? Sometimes we hold too tightly and cling too selfishly to our lives. We seem to think that by refusing to surrender to Jesus’ lordship, we can control our future.
We must realize that the best use of a life is complete brokenness at Jesus’ feet.

As others see our lives, they may ask the question, “Why this waste?” To others, we may appear to be wasting our lives in service to Jesus.

But the truth is this: Brokenness is the very best use of a life.

Filed Under: everyday, ministry

Learning in Ministry

October 18, 2011 by Aliesha

My mom sent me this audio file from Revive Our Hearts last week, and I thought it was especially encouraging so I wanted to share it with you as well.  In it, Nancy Leigh DeMoss shares ten things she has learned in the last ten years of ministry, and it is applicable for anyone regardless of what facet of ministry in which they are involved (mom, pastor’s wife, etc.).

I really liked this part of the message:

You have pressure in your life; I have pressure in my life; we have pressures in this ministry. The fact is, we need pressure in order to grow and in order to serve the Lord and to be used in the ways that He wants to use us.

You’ve heard me say it this way over the years: Anything that makes us need the Lord is really a blessing. I’ve learned over these years that God is not so concerned about using me to build a ministry as He is about using the ministry to build my life and to conform me to the image of Christ, to make me into a true woman.

I’ve been so conscious over these years, when there are times of pressure and challenge and difficulty, that God is wanting to use those pressures to make me into more of a true woman who reflects and radiates the beauty and the grace of Christ.

You’ve probably seen this in your own life: The greatest growth happens in hard places.

Listen to the whole message (or read the transcript) here!

Filed Under: ministry, worth repeating

Guide to Taking Meals to Others

September 29, 2011 by Aliesha



This post was previously published at Vignettes, where Kristin invited me to be a guest-poster back in the summer.  I thought I’d republish it here in case any of you missed it!

If you’ve ever had someone prepare food for you when you were sick, you know what a blessing the “ministry of food” can be!  I love being able to bless people in need with meals, whether they are (or one of their family members is) sick, grieving, moving, or welcoming a new baby.

I thought I’d share with you today some tips for successfully bringing meals to others!

1) Ask them

This might seem kind of unnecessary, but it is important to talk with the family first and find out if a meal would be a blessing.  Ninety-nine percent of the time they’ll say yes, but this also gives you a chance to find out if they have any food preferences (i.e., vegetarian), intolerances, or allergies and what day/time they would appreciate the meal.

2) Keep it simple
It is better to take a bagged salad, store-bought bread, and a simple main dish than to completely stress yourself out over making something elaborate.  I find that it is easiest if I just double what I’m making so that I can feed my family and theirs with one swoop!  Plan a menu that you can complete part of a day ahead or at least the morning of so you are not as rushed at dinner time.

3) Stick with what you know
Don’t try out a recipe you have never tried before.  You’ll just be wondering if it turned out okay, and be horrified if you find out later that it did not.  The only exception to this rule is if you 1) know your way around the kitchen really well, 2) have a backup plan, and 3) are able to taste the dish before sending it over.  I recently tried a new recipe (fried rice) when taking a meal to some friends, but I had white rice for backup and I tried it before I packaged up their portion!

4) Avoid polarizing foods
In addition to avoiding foods that the family is allergic to, try to stay away from making main dishes that include polarizing (love ’em or hate ’em) foods, such as seafood, mushrooms, etc.  Consider packaging salad toppings such as tomatoes and dressings separately so that the recipient can use them (or not) according to their preferences.

5) Package wisely
Disposable containers are VERY much appreciated when you are delivering a meal.  That way, the family does not have to worry about washing and returning your dishes.  I find great disposable pans with lids at the Dollar Tree (usually two or three for $1).  Consider including some disposable plates and napkins too, especially if the family is moving (their dishes may already be packed!).  Make sure you also package things well for transport in the car.  You don’t want sloppy Joes all over the baseboard of your car!  I like to wrap things in a big towel to keep them warm, then put them inside a cardboard box to prevent spills.

6) Give yourself a window
Maybe this tip is just helpful to me.  🙂 Don’t promise that you’ll arrive at 5:00 sharp… instead say you’ll be there between 5:00 and 5:15.  Shoot for 5:00, but if you’re running a teeny bit behind schedule, you’ll still be there within the window you gave them. 

7) Don’t forget dessert
Even if it’s just store-bought ice cream or pound cake, try to include a little something sweet for the end of the meal (unless of course you know for sure they would not appreciate it).

8) Give a little extra
I like to include little extras sometimes, like a pretty menu or decorative labels for the food.  Flowers from your garden would be lovely to include if appropriate for the occasion.  A hand-written note to the individual or family would mean so much, and a small gift for an older child would be a blessing to a new mom!  I love to include homemade bread when possible.  Another fun thing to do is take a few breakfast items for them to enjoy the next day!

9) Enlist a crew
If you are the meal coordinator, put the phone away and instead click over to Take Them a Meal, a website which simplifies coordinating meals.  I recently used this site and it only took me 5 minutes to set up a schedule and post the details to facebook.  Everyone can then just sign up directly on the site, avoiding the need for you to spend time on the phone or try to avoid duplicate meals!

Meal Ideas
Finally, here are just a few meal ideas to tuck away for the next time you are taking someone a meal:
-spaghetti
-lasagna
-favorite casseroles
-soup 
-takeout from their favorite restaurant
-pulled pork/beef sandwiches
-chicken pot pie

I hope these tips have been helpful to you and enable you to bless others through cooking for them in their time of need!

For more ideas on the topic of ministry meals, visit my hospitality Pinterest board!

Filed Under: cooking, ministry

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