About a year ago (nearly to the day), I was looking a little something like this:
Vera waited another 13 days after that picture was taken to make her appearance! While at the time I thought she was VERY LATE, I realize now that she was right on time! I am thankful that God allowed her to develop fully so that when she was born she was healthy and alert.
Isn’t it wonderful that God’s timing is always perfect?!
Since it is World Breastfeeding Week, I thought I would take a post to share a little more about my experience breastfeeding Vera.
Note: I know that not all women choose to breastfeed, and I know that not every woman who desires to breastfeed is able to, so please know that I write this post with that in mind!
I shared some of my struggles with breastfeeding in this post last fall, but I wanted to share the rest of my story.
Vera and I have had a great breastfeeding relationship, and I am happy to say that she has nursed 100% of the time for the past (almost) year. I have only on a few occasions even given her a bottle of pumped breastmilk, so we have definitely spent a lot of time together! It is a big commitment to breastfeed exclusively, and it does require sacrifice (i.e., not being able to be away from your baby for long periods of time, limitations on your wardrobe, etc.). But I wouldn’t trade this privilege for anything, especially since I know that not everyone is able to nurse their babies.
Aside from the clogged ducts, sore nipples, and one bout of mastitis (all within the first three months), I have had very little trouble nursing. I learned a few “tricks” along the way that definitely helped my experience!
Combating Soreness
One word: lanolin! I used Medela lanolin ointment LOTS early on and it is awesome! It provides relief from sore nipples and is safe for the baby. Also, make sure your baby’s latch is good. Nothing causes sore nipples faster than a bad latch!
Dealing with Clogged Ducts
When I felt a clogged duct coming on (after the first few times when I learned my lesson), I started drinking more water, getting more rest (if possible), massaging the area, nursing on the affected side first, and placing warm, moist compresses on the area. I think clogged ducts are par for the course when you have a great supply like I did, but all of these things helped me get rid of them quickly. Also, once I switched from disposable nursing pads to Bamboobies I noticed that I got significantly fewer clogged ducts (I may not have gotten any after that point). Seriously, Bamboobies are awesome. Oh, and p.s. I just saw that you can get a free pair this week only just for paying shipping costs (under $5) sorry no longer available.
Mastitis
The best way to not get mastitis is to quickly get rid of clogged ducts! The one time I got mastitis it was because of clogged ducts. Again, use warm, moist compresses and massage the area. Rest, drink water, and don’t stop nursing!
Clothing
Like I said before, breastfeeding does limit your wardrobe, but I have found a few essentials have helped me be able to nurse in public without exposing myself. First, I love a good nursing tank, like the ones from Glamourmom or even Target. These are great for wearing around the house, at night, or under another shirt when going out. A good nursing bra is a must. Around January (so after 5 months of breastfeeding) I finally found a nursing bra I loved. I bought two (they were from Target and not that expensive)! A few nice nursing tops or dresses are fun to have (like ones from Motherwear or Peek-a-boo). I also love my Undercover Mama, which cleverly allows you to wear any top as a nursing top.
Covers
While I loved using my two Udder Covers at the beginning, I soon found that an apron-style nursing cover is no match for an active and flailing baby. The best nursing cover I have found is the Boob*Toob! If you sew, you could make one easily (I have made several to give as gifts).
I think that’s about all I have to say about breastfeeding right now. Except for this advice: at the beginning, nurse early and often! Nurse, nurse, nurse so your milk comes in and you get a good supply! If you have any questions about breastfeeding, feel free to ask, though I do not consider myself to be an expert! For some really expert advice, check out the Motherwear Breastfeeding Blog.
One more FAQ in light of yesterday’s post…
Are you going to keep nursing Vera since you are pregnant? Are you weaning soon?
Yes, I am still going to nurse Vera as long as possible. No, I am not actively trying to wean her, but if she self-weans after a year, that is fine. I will try to nurse her as long as my supply lasts!
I was not paid by any of these companies to provide links to their products. I have, however, received many of these products as review items for SIMPLE or She {hearts} It in the past.
We have something exciting to share!
Can you guess what it might be?
I bet you probably can. 🙂
We are simply thrilled…
…that…
in February(ish)…
…a new member will be joining
our family!!!
Yes… we are expecting again!
We are grateful to God for this new blessing.
A few FAQ’s…
How far along are you?
About twelve weeks! The picture above was taken at eleven weeks.
How have you been feeling?
Pretty sick, actually, though not nearly as sick as I was with Vera. With that pregnancy, I had trouble keeping water down and had to go on Zofran. This time, I have been nauseous but have kept everything down. I feel pretty good in the mornings, but I get sicker as the day goes on. I’ve been trying to snack a lot because I know hunger can make me feel sicker, and I also do not skip meals no matter how badly I am feeling. I have also discovered that almonds are a great snack that help reduce nausea!
Have you been to the doctor?
Yes, I have been to see my midwife once. The appointment wasn’t terribly exciting, since they didn’t do an ultrasound and it was too early to hear the heartbeat with the Doppler. We’re hoping to hear our little one’s heartbeat in a week at our next appointment!
Why did you wait so long to tell people?
We have had a lot of difficult things going on at our church lately and thought it was wise to wait to make our announcement. It was hard to keep the secret so long, especially since I think I’m already looking a little “poochy,” haha, but I think we did the right thing.
Are you going to find out if it is a boy or a girl?
Probably yes. I think that appointment will be in late September.
Do you have any names picked out?
No, not yet. For now, we’re calling this one “Baby Mango.” 🙂
Thank you for praying for us and our baby-on-the-way!
P.S. Here I was at eleven weeks with Vera.
